THOUGHTS OF LIFE

Our real company is our thoughts.A man is known by his/her thoughts. These differ from person to person.There are three bases for its creation.1 our inheritance  2 our company of friends  3 our educational institution

1 ABRUPT REACTION DURING CONVERSATION IS TO BE AVOIDED.WE SHOULD WAIT  TILL OPPOSITE PERSON IS SAYING SOMETHING.AFTER THAT REPRESENT YOUR THOUGHT IN DESCENT MANNER.ANY WHERE IN DISCUSSION TEMPER IS TO BE MAINTAINED.GOOD CONVERSATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT WAY TO SUCCEED.HE SELLS WELL WHO TELLS WELL WITH PATIENCE. EVEN IN WORST CIRCUMSTANCES ANGER IS NOT TO BE DEPICTED BECAUSE THIS IS  WORSE THAN ANY OTHER DISEASE.

2 LISTENING IS A NICE HABIT.SHOULD LISTEN 8 TIMES MORE THAN SPEAK AS INDICATED BY NATURE WHO HAS PROVIDED US ONE TONGUE DOUBLE LOCKED BY 32 TEETH, 2 LIPS TO SPEAK AND 2 EARS TO LISTEN.SECONDLY PEOPLE LIKE LISTENING TO THEM. THIRDLY ENERGY USED IN CONVERSATION IS SAVED WHICH WE CAN USE IN CREATIVE THINGS.MEANS OUR WORK SHOULD SPEAK ONLY.

3 IF CONVERSATION IS NECESSARY THEN IT SHOULD BE POLITE AND EFFECTIVE BECAUSE PERSONALITY OF ANY PERSON IS (APPEARANCE + CONVERSATIONAL SKILL) IN HUMBLE CONVERSATION FACE EXPRESSIONS ALSO SUPPORT US NICELY WHICH IS THE MAJOR PART OF OUR PERSONALITY. MEANS THE ULTIMATE THING FOR SUCCESS IN ANY FIELD OF LIFE IS CONVERSATIONAL SKILL.RATHER A PERSON IS JUDGED WHILE TALKING TO HIS JUNIOR.

4 IF AIM IS HIGH THEN HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE BECAUSE INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN HEALTHY BODY .SO IN 24 HOURS 2 HRS TO BE SPENT FOR IT AS COMPULSORY AS BREATHING FOR BODY.SECONDLY MEANING OF WORD EATABLES SHOULD BE UNDERSTOOD. THAT IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)

5 REPUTATION IS PRECIOUS BUT CHARACTER IS PRICELESS. It IS EASY TO MAINTAIN BUT DIFFICULT TO RECOVER.SO DEALING WITH FEMALES SUBORDINATES SHOULD BE IN ELEGANT PROFESSIONAL WAY KEEPING A DISTANCE FOR UNSTOPABLE PROGRESS IN BUSINESS OR PROFESSION

6 HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE AS TO PROFESSION OR BUSINESS. WE CONTRIBUTE UNLIMITED HOURS FOR THE SUCCESS OF BUSINESS BUT NOT ONE HOUR FOR THE HEALTH WITH WHICH BUSINESS/PROFESSION IS TO BE EXECUTED. INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN HEALTHY BODY.SO WE SHOULD START OUR DAY WITH YOGA AS A COMPUSORY SUBJECT.IT IS AS IMPORTANT AS BREATHING FOR OUR BODY. SECONDLY MEANING OF EATABLES SHOULD BE UNDERSTOOD. THAT IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)

7 No plant in the universe can flourish if its roots are not healthy because it is the only selfless part which forwards every feed further taken from earth. But it should be taken care nicely time to time. And PARENTS ARE THE ROOTS my dear. We may or may not worship GOD but PARENTS for real happiness in life

8 In conversation we should be as bright as Sun, as cool as Moon as sweet as honey because to reach dizzy height in business / profession conversation plays the major role after fortune

9 To achieve a target in life is just like burning a candle in storm or producing fire in water.We should not compare our self with others because we watch only their cool side not can see the sucky and hidden part of their life. In the end we are left comparing our mundane day-to-day life with others’ adventures. That is a competition we can't win .We may learn from horse running as his eyes are covered with leather to avoid distraction from

 10 A successful BUSINESSMAN is that who does not react at once in conversation. Listens properly, then gives his views patiently, can create a team of innovative subordinates keeping over all control with him. He should neither sweeter than sugar nor bitter than quinine. He should give independence, opportunity targets, to subordinates, admire their talent before telling any mistake in feed back

11 GENERALLY WE SPEND TOO MUCH OF TIME IN TRYING TO PERFECT SOMETHING BEFORE LAUNCHING IT INSTEAD WE SHOULD LAUNCH WHAT WE POSSESS IN THAT MOMENT AND PERFECT IT ALONG THE WAY.

12 It is said that If character is lost everything is lost ,if health ,something is lost , if wealth , nothing is lost then why we are called rich only with wealth  not with character and health in possession

13 Before starting innovation we should assess our self, our company’s vision, our company’s ultimate goal. Keep our eyes and ears open .Think of genius. Take some time to study successful persons Learn what makes them tick and how their “out-of-box” thinking got them to where they are today Note down in computer in initial stage. Even if you think an idea is bad .Consult with team members.. Collaboration is key to success

14 We are security officers of our own health, wealth, reputation and relationships. If we ignore any of the four ,the whole system gets upset because of connectivity with one another .So we should try  to secure all to maintain balance.

    

15 Nobody is to share our responsibilities, even God how much we pray (beg). we are to keep our self cool and solve it patiently because when a tight knot is to open it requires patience The only  solution is to work sincerely keeping in mind that every effort does not produce positive results .means with negative results we are not to be disappointed 

16 We are in a society in which we have made some ethics as school is for study; Mandir is for worship, gym for exercise and bed room for love making. How we can condemn sex when we are born with it but it should not be shown openly on social sites because it’s a personal property.

17 Efforts should be treated as companion (all the time with us ) and success should be treated as guest (comes occasionally ) to keep our self healthy and tension free 

18 The strongest man on earth is that who stands alone with a vision because nobody is around him to distract. He creates friendship with efforts only

19 If we are to reach the highest point then are to start our journey from lowest because it require experience which starts from the lowest end

20 An Artist is unique in character. He is mad with his own loveliness He does not see the things as they are but as he is because art is the WINE OF LIFE.

21 The process of birth shows the complicacy of life. That to achieve any target throughout our life we are to pass through a tight way It means nothing comes easy in life. So we should try for the best and prepare for the worst keeping in mind that life is not of bed of roses always.

22 whatever available in present moment of life we should accept it happily if  want to enjoy life because it is the air port from where we are to take off the flight of achievements

23 Be ready to spend some money. It’s smart to have funds saved up for research Dream big, humble start. Take one step at a time. If your company has the wonderful idea of building a flying car, you might want to teach everyone how to use a wrench first. Baby steps are extremely important. Once you have a great, innovative and development.

24 Try for best prepare for worst. When it comes to generating innovative ideas, failure is commonplace. If something doesn’t work out, do your research, keep making adjustments and start again if necessary. It will be worth it in the end. You’ll only fail if you give up!. People who try and fail are better than those who fail to try.

25 Listen and silent possess same letters. we can either speak or listen at one time. By listening we learn much.  so we should listen even to dull and ignorant people because sometime they have their own story for our vocabulary of knowledge And lastly people are pleased  by listening to them.

26 If conversation is a necessity then we should be humble in expressing our thoughts We should not impose our thoughts to others but for the improvements of ourselves otherwise we will have fewer friend

 27 We are not to boast of our achievements. Because when the rises everybody feels its heat and shine

28 We should make our job entertaining so that we may be able to produce good results without fatigue rather with freshness. It means we should create interest in our work. It should not be only for bread and butter but for enjoyment also

29 To be happy in every moment of life we should enjoy those things which we possess  in that moment and ignore which we do not, because all the comforts cannot come together all the  times
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30 Whatever pleasure giving moments are with us at present we should take full advantage of those because our only property is our present time

 31 Anger shows the character of the person. It is worse than any other disease. It stops creativity of brain .if we are patient in one moment of anger we can escape unlimited days of sorrow.

32 Generally we get angry when we find faults with others sitting around us. For happiness in life we are to absorb the faults of others because one moment of anger spoils so many days of happiness.

33 Creative mind is in healthy body. So at least one hour should be devoted daily to keep the body healthy. If we cannot devote time for it then we have no right to think about it whether it may go to hell. In the later stage we may not recover it even by spending that money which we have earned at the cost of our health.

 34 We should maintain the balanced life .it should be divided as health, family, business and social. we generally do injustice to health, family and devote whole time to business and social life. With the results business and social contacts rises at the cost of health and family which cannot be recovered in the later stage of life

35 We are here in this beautiful world. WE are to make it more beautiful with our efforts not to find out its creator and praising His art again and again.  If any super power created us we are also improving our self day by day. If we compare the original composition (undressed person) with the dressed one we can find out the difference and feel our importance. 

36 One thing is to be kept in mind that all alluring things cannot come together all the time in life. Some time we get this and some time that. So we should remain happy with what we possess in that moment of life otherwise we will be sad always

37 TRY FOR THE BEST PREPARE FOR THE WORST is the only solution to make ourselves happy. In Ramayana Lord Ram kept patience in such an odd time when smt. Sita JI was kidnapped by Mr. Ravan. Lord Rama did not demand help from His father, planned everything in jungle, took one year and got released Smt. SITA, but did not perform any pooja path for this hard task. After reading this holy book so many times if we perform pooja path to achieve small small things in life it means we have not learnt anything from this holy book only read it inattentively

38 IF WE WANT REAL HAPPINESS it is found in innocence which is available at two places one in kids 2^nd in pets because they return more than we give them. In human society the return is less than expected so is the cause of disturbance but we cannot live without it so we should remove expectation word from from our dictionary. So should spend some time with kids and pets for real happiness

39 We are to contribute something according to our skill to make this world more beautiful. Few people contributed according to their talent but majority have not. To hide their inefficiency they discovered a name called GOD (generator operator destroyer) in Hindi they named it BRAHMMA (generator) VISHNU (operator) MAHESH (destroyer). They created statues religion wise sat in front of them for begging something more than in their possession

40 Few persons did nothing only created a different but false path claiming this world mithya (false).They wear saffron (sign of detachment ) or white simple type of dressing but constructed their own huge ashrams with the donations of terrified  people. Some persons went one step ahead they posed themselves as GOD. .They suggested MEDITATION, HAVAN, POOJA, PATH to any kind of problem because most of them are week persons who could not face the problems of life .

41 After achieving a successful life we move to detached persons (sadhu, Babe) for some problems we face at different times. But how they can solve a problem connected with business when they are ignorant about it. How they can solve a domestic issue when they themselves have run away from this life

42 GOD IS CREATING HUMAN BEINGS    THAT is THE ONLY ACHIEVEMENT .BUT WE ARE DOING SO MANY THINGS  TO MAKE OUR SELF MORE AND MORE BEAUTIFUL CONTINUOUSLY .IT IS MORE THAN WONDERFUL AND APPRECIABLE. HATS OFF TO THE PERSONS WHO HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN THIS MODERNIZATION  .MEANS WE SHOULD REALIZE OUR STRENGTH.

43 We all believe in holy books like RAMAYNA, MAHABHARATA, GEETA, BIBLE, and GURUGARANTHSAHIB. If we study carefully LORD RAM could not live peacefully throughout his life LORD KRISHNA could not change neither his birth place (prison) nor HIS death. LORD ESAMASIH could not prevent himself from nailing. GURU NANAK DEVJI could not change the views of their children. Then how can we expect a life full of roses all the time. Thorns are to be accepted also HAPPILY.

44 Meditation is a temporary solution for peace of mind. Meditation is to detach our self from the rest of the world and move to neutral. We should make our job so attractive that we need not to think of   DETATCHMENT with this beautiful world for a moment even

45 Reality is horrible to listen that we live by killing others. Everybody is killer. We all in illness kill germs by taking medicines. We all do not like any type of insect inside our premises so we kill them by spray or some other means. We all kill vegetable plants for our food. We all cut our garden plants to make it beautiful. When we perform any type of worship we pluck flowers (killing of flowers) from its original place and devote or shower upon a statue .So we all are killers.

46 Whatever we do in life is totally a natural phenomenon because we cannot select our parents. If we are born in royal family silver spoon is in our mouth otherwise we are spoon for others. Secondly when we meet our life partner. If it is proper harmony in each other then it is heaven otherwise…….Thirdly when we give birth to a child. If it is good then ok otherwise…. It means nothing in our hands Achhe ho to itrana nahin bure ho to pachhtana nahin

47 We should DO BEFORE DO the following 1 listen before speak 2 think before write 3 earn before spend 4 try before quit 5 wait before criticize 6 save before retire 7 do memorable before die 8 investigate before invest

48 We should buy when everyone else is selling and hold until everyone else is buying. That's not just a catchy slogan. It's the very essence of successful investing.
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49 The only definition of happiness is to get according to our wishes and  the wishes are inborn and we are known by our wishes so nothing is in our hands (TO BE NICE OR …)


50 We are to decide whether we want to be unique or one of the crowd person. In the first option we are to create our own line of action without bothering the results we are to watch our weaknesses value our strength and try hard to achieve

51 How can every brain resemble in innovation. there are two type of persons one type wants to live as a part of the crowd doing routine things in daily life second type want to be unique  making its own line leaving the crowd doing some memorable things in good sense at the same time giving something benefit able to the society also  
 

 52 we stumble on small stones not on mountains because we are not cautious on small things in life .If we do not open our eyes on small small things then we are to open our purse and a light purse is a heavy curse

 53 Sky is the limit for achievement we should be motivated from kite flying (as we keep our eyes up and act very promptly in this process) to reach at the top . Talent ambition and initiative are required for this aim and we are to be more vigilant like a rope dancer to maintain this position

 54 A person of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds (useless plants ).So whatever we promise to ourselves or others should be executed To get things done we are to choose a busy person because he is busy for his working nature the other kind has no time

.55 we  are really old when regrets take the place of hopes because only hope sustains life And we should search hope within the   present circumstances

                                                               

56 Parents should educate their children according to their means saving something for the evening of their life because when they (parents) become unproductive children do not return  the affection and love in the same volume as they have received from their parents as love flows downward like water

 57 Always we should aim for the moon in case we miss it will fall among the stars.aim is the best companion in life MAN / WOMAN-AIM=ANIMAL

58 Success means growth and growth means change only change gives the enjoyment if it is in the right direction. So keep on changing everything but spouse because she is the best consultant (if intelligent)

59 Reading completes the person. Speech is training for the job. It is said that a person sells well who tells well

60 With truth we cannot lead a successful life. Things are to be manipulated even by LORD KRISHNA in MAHABHARATA otherwise PANDAVS would not have won the battle. So life is incomplete without lie (manipulation) 

61 We have always respected weak minded persons. The biggest example is  LORD BUDDHA because he could not see a funeral procession. we have always respected those who did nothing to make this world more beautiful but only criticized it and named it MITHYA (FALSE)

62 A man is known by the behavior he does with a junior or poor person. Everyone is humble with senior or rich person for himself but exclusive is that who deals humbly with a normal guy

63 We should not provide free food (langgar) to people but make them able to grow their own plants. By serving meal we spoil their habit of working which is a loss of society

64 We generally do what the boss inspect not the boss expect .Second type of persons become boss some time

65 If we do not open our eyes we will have to open our purse and a light purse is heavy curse so we should be alert always

66 We do not know what we do not know; we should find faults within ourselves not With others to create a nice society

67 We should live in present time since it is the only property we possess.  Past cannot be re winded and future is unknown. We are to adjust according to circumstances not circumstances adjust with us

68  IF WE COMPARE OURSELF WITH OURSELF IN DIFFERENT TIMES WE COME TO KNOW THAT WE ARE NOTHING ONLY TIME IS EVERYTHING

69 GOLD BECOMES ORNAMENT IF IMPURITIES ARE MIXED IN IT . SUCH IS THE CASE OF HUMANBEINGS. WE ARE TO DECIDE WHETHER WE WANT TO BE GOLD OR ORNAMENT

70  Fortune plays the only roll in human life. Either it is health, wealth, family life ,social life , intelligence or any other amenity come with the fortune. But all these amenities have no link with each other.

vijay verma 
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