Our real company is our thoughts.A man is known by his/her thoughts. These differ from person to person.There are three bases for its creation.1 our inheritance 2 our company of friends 3 our educational institution
1 ABRUPT
REACTION DURING CONVERSATION IS TO BE AVOIDED.WE SHOULD WAIT TILL OPPOSITE PERSON IS SAYING SOMETHING.AFTER
THAT REPRESENT YOUR THOUGHT IN DESCENT MANNER.ANY WHERE IN DISCUSSION TEMPER IS
TO BE MAINTAINED.GOOD CONVERSATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT WAY TO SUCCEED.HE
SELLS WELL WHO TELLS WELL WITH PATIENCE. EVEN IN WORST CIRCUMSTANCES ANGER IS
NOT TO BE DEPICTED BECAUSE THIS IS WORSE
THAN ANY OTHER DISEASE.
2 LISTENING IS A NICE
HABIT.SHOULD LISTEN 8 TIMES MORE THAN SPEAK AS INDICATED BY NATURE WHO HAS
PROVIDED US ONE TONGUE DOUBLE LOCKED BY 32 TEETH, 2 LIPS TO SPEAK AND 2 EARS TO
LISTEN.SECONDLY PEOPLE LIKE LISTENING TO THEM. THIRDLY ENERGY USED IN
CONVERSATION IS SAVED WHICH WE CAN USE IN CREATIVE THINGS.MEANS OUR WORK SHOULD
SPEAK ONLY.
3 IF
CONVERSATION IS NECESSARY THEN IT SHOULD BE POLITE AND EFFECTIVE BECAUSE
PERSONALITY OF ANY PERSON IS (APPEARANCE + CONVERSATIONAL SKILL) IN HUMBLE
CONVERSATION FACE EXPRESSIONS ALSO SUPPORT US NICELY WHICH IS THE MAJOR PART OF
OUR PERSONALITY. MEANS THE ULTIMATE THING FOR SUCCESS IN ANY FIELD OF LIFE IS
CONVERSATIONAL SKILL.RATHER A PERSON IS JUDGED WHILE TALKING TO HIS JUNIOR.
4 IF AIM IS HIGH THEN
HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE BECAUSE INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN
HEALTHY BODY .SO IN 24 HOURS 2 HRS TO BE SPENT FOR IT AS COMPULSORY AS
BREATHING FOR BODY.SECONDLY MEANING OF WORD EATABLES SHOULD BE UNDERSTOOD. THAT
IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)
5 REPUTATION IS PRECIOUS BUT CHARACTER IS PRICELESS.
It IS EASY TO MAINTAIN BUT DIFFICULT TO RECOVER.SO DEALING WITH FEMALES
SUBORDINATES SHOULD BE IN ELEGANT PROFESSIONAL WAY KEEPING A DISTANCE FOR
UNSTOPABLE PROGRESS IN BUSINESS OR PROFESSION
6
HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE AS TO PROFESSION OR BUSINESS. WE CONTRIBUTE
UNLIMITED HOURS FOR THE SUCCESS OF BUSINESS BUT NOT ONE HOUR FOR THE HEALTH
WITH WHICH BUSINESS/PROFESSION IS TO BE EXECUTED. INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN
HEALTHY BODY.SO WE SHOULD START OUR DAY WITH YOGA AS A COMPUSORY SUBJECT.IT IS
AS IMPORTANT AS BREATHING FOR OUR BODY. SECONDLY MEANING OF EATABLES SHOULD BE
UNDERSTOOD. THAT IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)
7 No plant in the universe can flourish if its roots are not healthy because it is the only selfless part which forwards every feed further taken from earth. But it should be taken care nicely time to time. And PARENTS ARE THE ROOTS my dear. We may or may not worship GOD but PARENTS for real happiness in life
8 In conversation we should be as bright as Sun, as cool as Moon
as sweet as honey because to reach dizzy height in business / profession
conversation plays the major role after fortune
9 To achieve a target in life is just like burning a candle in storm or producing fire in water.We should not compare our self with others because we watch only their cool side not can see the sucky and hidden part of their life. In the end we are left comparing our mundane day-to-day life with others’ adventures. That is a competition we can't win .We may learn from horse running as his eyes are covered with leather to avoid distraction from
10 A successful BUSINESSMAN is that who does not react at once in conversation. Listens properly, then gives his views patiently, can create a team of innovative subordinates keeping over all control with him. He should neither sweeter than sugar nor bitter than quinine. He should give independence, opportunity targets, to subordinates, admire their talent before telling any mistake in feed back
11 GENERALLY WE SPEND TOO MUCH OF TIME IN
TRYING TO PERFECT SOMETHING BEFORE LAUNCHING IT INSTEAD WE SHOULD LAUNCH WHAT
WE POSSESS IN THAT MOMENT AND PERFECT IT ALONG THE WAY.
12 It is said that If character is lost everything is lost ,if health ,something is lost , if wealth , nothing is lost then why we are called rich only with wealth not with character and health in possession
13 Before starting innovation we should assess
our self, our company’s vision, our company’s ultimate goal. Keep our eyes and
ears open .Think of genius. Take some time to study successful persons Learn
what makes them tick and how their “out-of-box” thinking got them to where they
are today Note down in computer in initial stage. Even if you think an idea is
bad .Consult with team members.. Collaboration is key to success
14 We are security officers of our own health, wealth, reputation and
relationships. If we ignore any of the four ,the whole system gets upset
because of connectivity with one another .So we should try to secure all to maintain balance.
15 Nobody is to share our responsibilities, even God
how much we pray (beg). we are to keep our self cool and solve it patiently
because when a tight knot is to open it requires patience The only solution is to work sincerely keeping in mind
that every effort does not produce positive results .means with negative
results we are not to be disappointed
16 We are in a
society in which we have made some ethics as school is for study; Mandir is for
worship, gym for exercise and bed room for love making. How we can condemn sex
when we are born with it but it should not be shown openly on social sites because
it’s a personal property.
17 Efforts should be treated as
companion (all the time with us ) and success should be treated as guest (comes
occasionally ) to keep our self healthy and tension free
18 The strongest man on earth is that who stands alone
with a vision because nobody is around him to distract. He creates friendship
with efforts only
19 If we are to reach the highest point
then are to start our journey from lowest because it require experience which
starts from the lowest end
20 An Artist is unique in character. He is mad with
his own loveliness He does not see the things as they are but as he is because
art is the WINE OF LIFE.
21 The process of birth shows the
complicacy of life. That to achieve any target throughout our life we are to
pass through a tight way It means nothing comes easy in life. So we should try
for the best and prepare for the worst keeping in mind that life is not of bed
of roses always.
23 Be ready to spend
some money. It’s smart to have funds saved up for research Dream big, humble start. Take one step
at a time. If your company has the wonderful idea of building a flying car, you
might want to teach everyone how to use a wrench first. Baby steps are
extremely important. Once you have a great, innovative and development.
24 Try for
best prepare for worst. When it comes to generating
innovative ideas, failure is commonplace. If something doesn’t work out, do
your research, keep making adjustments and start again if necessary. It will be
worth it in the end. You’ll only fail if you give up!. People who try and fail
are better than those who fail to try.
25 Listen and silent possess same letters. we can either speak or listen
at one time. By listening we learn much. so we should listen even to dull and ignorant
people because sometime they have their own story for our vocabulary of
knowledge And lastly people are pleased
by listening to them.
26 If conversation is a necessity then we should be humble in expressing
our thoughts We should not impose our thoughts to others but for the improvements
of ourselves otherwise we will have fewer friend
27 We are not
to boast of our achievements. Because when the rises everybody feels its heat
and shine
28 We should make our job entertaining so that we may be able to produce
good results without fatigue rather with freshness. It means we should create
interest in our work. It should not be only for bread and butter but for
enjoyment also
29 To be happy in every moment of life we should
enjoy those things which we possess in
that moment and ignore which we do not, because all the comforts cannot come
together all the times
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30 Whatever pleasure giving
moments are with us at present we should take full advantage of those because
our only property is our present time
31 Anger
shows the character of the person. It is worse than any other disease. It stops
creativity of brain .if we are patient in one moment of anger we can escape unlimited
days of sorrow.
32 Generally we get angry when we find faults with others sitting around us.
For happiness in life we are to absorb the faults of others because one moment
of anger spoils so many days of happiness.
33 Creative mind is in healthy body. So at least one
hour should be devoted daily to keep the body healthy. If we cannot devote time
for it then we have no right to think about it whether it may go to hell. In
the later stage we may not recover it even by spending that money which we have
earned at the cost of our health.
34 We should maintain the balanced
life .it should be divided as health, family, business and social. we generally
do injustice to health, family and devote whole time to business and social
life. With the results business and social contacts rises at the cost of health
and family which cannot be recovered in the later stage of life
35 We are here in this beautiful world. WE are to
make it more beautiful with our efforts not to find out its creator and
praising His art again and again. If any
super power created us we are also improving our self day by day. If we compare
the original composition (undressed person) with the dressed one we can find
out the difference and feel our importance.
36 One thing is to be kept in mind that all alluring things cannot come
together all the time in life. Some time we get this and some time that. So we should
remain happy with what we possess in that moment of life otherwise we will be
sad always
37
TRY FOR THE BEST PREPARE FOR THE WORST
is the only solution to make ourselves happy. In Ramayana Lord Ram kept patience
in such an odd time when smt. Sita JI was kidnapped by Mr. Ravan. Lord Rama did
not demand help from His father, planned everything in jungle, took one year and
got released Smt. SITA, but did not perform any pooja path for this hard task.
After reading this holy book so many times if we perform pooja path to achieve
small small things in life it means we have not learnt anything from this holy
book only read it inattentively
38 IF WE WANT REAL HAPPINESS it is found in innocence which is available
at two places one in kids 2nd in pets because they return more than
we give them. In human society the return is less than expected so is the cause
of disturbance but we cannot live without it so we should remove expectation
word from from our dictionary. So should spend some time with kids and pets for
real happiness
39 We are to
contribute something according to our skill to make this world more beautiful.
Few people contributed according to their talent but majority have not. To hide
their inefficiency they discovered a name called GOD (generator operator
destroyer) in Hindi they named it BRAHMMA (generator) VISHNU (operator) MAHESH
(destroyer). They created statues religion wise sat in front of them for begging
something more than in their possession
40 Few persons did nothing only created a different but false path
claiming this world mithya (false).They wear saffron (sign of detachment ) or
white simple type of dressing but constructed their own huge ashrams with the
donations of terrified people. Some
persons went one step ahead they posed themselves as GOD. .They suggested
MEDITATION, HAVAN, POOJA, PATH to any kind of problem because most of them are
week persons who could not face the problems of life .
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41 After achieving a successful life we move to detached persons (sadhu,
Babe) for some problems we face at different times. But how they can solve a
problem connected with business when they are ignorant about it. How they can
solve a domestic issue when they themselves have run away from this life
42 GOD IS CREATING HUMAN BEINGS THAT is THE ONLY ACHIEVEMENT .BUT WE ARE
DOING SO MANY THINGS TO MAKE OUR SELF
MORE AND MORE BEAUTIFUL CONTINUOUSLY .IT IS MORE THAN WONDERFUL AND
APPRECIABLE. HATS OFF TO THE PERSONS WHO HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN THIS MODERNIZATION .MEANS WE SHOULD REALIZE OUR STRENGTH.
43 We all believe in holy books like RAMAYNA, MAHABHARATA, GEETA, BIBLE,
and GURUGARANTHSAHIB. If we study carefully LORD RAM could not live peacefully
throughout his life LORD KRISHNA could not change neither his birth place
(prison) nor HIS death. LORD ESAMASIH could not prevent himself from nailing.
GURU NANAK DEVJI could not change the views of their children. Then how can we
expect a life full of roses all the time. Thorns are to be accepted also
HAPPILY.
44 Meditation is a temporary solution for peace of mind.
Meditation is to detach our self from the rest of the world and move to
neutral. We should make our job so attractive that we need not to think of DETATCHMENT with this beautiful world for a
moment even
45 Reality is horrible to listen that we live by killing others. Everybody
is killer. We all in illness kill germs by taking medicines. We all do not like
any type of insect inside our premises so we kill them by spray or some other
means. We all kill vegetable plants for our food. We all cut our garden plants
to make it beautiful. When we perform any type of worship we pluck flowers
(killing of flowers) from its original place and devote or shower upon a statue
.So we all are killers.
47 We
should DO BEFORE DO the following 1 listen before speak 2 think before write 3
earn before spend 4 try before quit 5 wait before criticize 6 save before
retire 7 do memorable before die 8 investigate before invest
48 We should buy when everyone else is selling and hold until everyone else is buying. That's not just a catchy slogan. It's the very essence of successful investing.
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49 The only definition of happiness is to get according to our wishes and the wishes are inborn and we are known by our wishes so nothing is in our hands (TO BE NICE OR …)
50 We are to decide whether we want to be unique or one of the crowd person. In the first option we are to create our own line of action without bothering the results we are to watch our weaknesses value our strength and try hard to achieve
51 How can every brain resemble in innovation. there are two type of persons one type wants to live as a part of the crowd doing routine things in daily life second type want to be unique making its own line leaving the crowd doing some memorable things in good sense at the same time giving something benefit able to the society also
54 A person
of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds (useless plants ).So
whatever we promise to ourselves or others should be executed To get things done we are to
choose a busy person because he is busy for his working nature the other kind
has no time
46 Whatever we do in life is totally a natural phenomenon because we cannot
select our parents. If we are born in royal family silver spoon is in our mouth
otherwise we are spoon for others. Secondly when we meet our life partner. If
it is proper harmony in each other then it is heaven otherwise…….Thirdly when we
give birth to a child. If it is good then ok otherwise…. It means nothing in
our hands Achhe ho to itrana nahin bure ho to pachhtana nahin
48 We should buy when everyone else is selling and hold until everyone else is buying. That's not just a catchy slogan. It's the very essence of successful investing.
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49 The only definition of happiness is to get according to our wishes and the wishes are inborn and we are known by our wishes so nothing is in our hands (TO BE NICE OR …)
50 We are to decide whether we want to be unique or one of the crowd person. In the first option we are to create our own line of action without bothering the results we are to watch our weaknesses value our strength and try hard to achieve
51 How can every brain resemble in innovation. there are two type of persons one type wants to live as a part of the crowd doing routine things in daily life second type want to be unique making its own line leaving the crowd doing some memorable things in good sense at the same time giving something benefit able to the society also
52 we stumble on small stones not on mountains
because we are not cautious on small things in life .If we do not open our eyes
on small small things then we are to open our purse and a light purse is a
heavy curse
53 Sky
is the limit for achievement we should be motivated from kite flying (as we
keep our eyes up and act very promptly in this process) to reach at the top . Talent
ambition and initiative are required for this aim and we are to be more vigilant
like a rope dancer to maintain this position
54 A person
of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds (useless plants ).So
whatever we promise to ourselves or others should be executed To get things done we are to
choose a busy person because he is busy for his working nature the other kind
has no time
.55 we
are really old when regrets take the place of hopes because only hope
sustains life And we should search hope within the present circumstances
56
Parents should educate their children according to their means saving something
for the evening of their life because when they (parents) become unproductive
children do not return the affection and
love in the same volume
as they have received from their parents as love flows downward like water
57 Always we should aim for the moon in case
we miss it will fall among the stars.aim is the best companion in life MAN /
WOMAN-AIM=ANIMAL
58 Success
means growth and growth means change only change gives the enjoyment if it is
in the right direction. So keep on changing everything but spouse because she
is the best consultant (if intelligent)
59
Reading completes the person. Speech is training for the job. It is said that a
person sells well who tells well
60 With
truth we cannot lead a successful life. Things are to be manipulated even by
LORD KRISHNA in MAHABHARATA otherwise PANDAVS would not have won the battle. So
life is incomplete without lie (manipulation)
61
We have always respected weak minded persons. The biggest example is LORD BUDDHA because he could not see a funeral
procession. we have always respected those who did nothing to make this world
more beautiful but only criticized it and named it MITHYA (FALSE)
62 A man is known by the behavior he does with a junior
or poor person. Everyone is humble with senior or rich person for himself but
exclusive is that who deals humbly with a normal guy
63
We should not provide free food (langgar) to people but make them able to grow
their own plants. By serving meal we spoil their habit of working which is a
loss of society
64 We
generally do what the boss inspect not the boss expect .Second type of persons
become boss some time
65
If we do not open our eyes we will have to open our purse and a light purse is
heavy curse so we should be alert always
66 We do not
know what we do not know; we should find faults within ourselves not With others
to create a nice society
67
We should live in present time since it is the only property we possess. Past cannot be re winded and future is unknown. We are to adjust
according to circumstances not circumstances adjust with us
68 IF WE COMPARE OURSELF WITH OURSELF IN
DIFFERENT TIMES WE COME TO KNOW THAT WE ARE NOTHING ONLY TIME IS EVERYTHING
69 GOLD
BECOMES ORNAMENT IF IMPURITIES ARE MIXED IN IT . SUCH IS THE CASE OF HUMANBEINGS.
WE ARE TO DECIDE WHETHER WE WANT TO BE GOLD OR ORNAMENT
70 Fortune plays the only roll in human life.
Either it is health, wealth, family life ,social life , intelligence or any
other amenity come with the fortune. But all these amenities have no link with
each other.
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