CONVERSATIONAL ART

1. Conversational art is the ability to communicate information accurately clearly and effectively .It helps in all aspects of your life from professionalism to social gathering and every field in between. Oral conversation helps you to achieve your targets in life. The ability to communicate with others is the life line of all human endeavours. Once words have been released they can never be recalled and the art of conversation is one with which every one should be greatly concerned. Speaking is not effective unless it accomplishes the purpose which the speaker has selected as his/her goal. Where ever, when ever you go you are involved with people and nothing can be achieved without communicating with them. Magic doors continually open for those who have learned how to express themselves
2. To succeed in effective conversation which is essential to any worthwhile endeavour is the desire amounting to enthusiasm, persistence to wear away mountains and the self-assurance to belief that we will succeed. The greatest book or poem has not been written. The greatest painting has not been painted. And you have not delivered your best speech. It means there is always a scope for improvement.
3. KV WEDDING CONSULTANTS encourages you to attain it to be a unique wedding specialist.
4. Your success as a CERTIFIED WEDDING SPECIALIST depends upon your ability to communicate with your clients who seek your service, as it is through communication that you sell your self and your services .Your communicative ability enhances your reputation. With this you give a lot of information, easy-to-follow directions to the wedding party to get rid of tenseness .The more you are polite and effective in conversation with the wedding family the more comfortable they feel resulting a nice reputation you earn in your professional field. As your reputation grows you are asked to speak to groups of people on this wedding subject. At this junction you are to create humour by adding your personal experience of some wedding events to make your speech interesting in Public interaction
5. Conversation with public is very important if you want to attain dizzy heights in profession/business carrier. To be a nice Speaker you may join some debating society. For motivation you should select some role model as George Bernard Shaw of London who was very timid in his early days of life but by regular practicing in closed door rooms and joining in debating clubs became one of  the most confident and brilliant speakers of the first half of twentieth century. It means one may achieve any goal with strong determination
6. Actually you are to decide whether you want to be unique or one of the crowd person. The way you feel and think about things surrounding you makes you different from others. Unique persons put the beauty in rose they admire .others don’t notice that rose.  Your thought as a wedding specialist should be different from the way any one else thinks about the same thing. Sooner or later the way you feel about, anything, reveals itself to those around you. The thoughts which you convey to others depend upon your ATTITUDE which further depend upon several factors as
7. 1 KNOWLEDGE OF THE SUBJECT
8. Such knowledge is absolutely essential for you to speak with confidence and without fear of exposing your self as an unqualified speaker, whether it is a platform or one to one basis. You should talk from heart, not from a book. Speakers who talk about what life has taught them never fail to keep the attention of the listeners. Having courage to speak does not depend on what is happening outside you but what is happening inside you. Only thoughts can give you courage or fear. So you should possess positive thoughts to attain courage. Mainly knowledge comes from experience as well as from material related to the subject. Actually reading a book can give you information you need to execute a wedding but after executing it you get more confidence to deliver a speech on the subject before a group or before an individual. Translating the written material in to actual experience is the secret to possess full knowledge that gives you the power to speak confidently on the subject
9.  2 KNOWLEDGE OF THE AUDIENCE
10.  A knowledge of your audience is quite important because knowing something about them gives you information concerning the degree of interest which you may expect from them. It is not possible to have pre-knowledge if audience is limited to one or two persons. It should be in groups only. Where this knowledge does not exist your audience soon reveals to you a great deal about themselves by their questions and their degree of interest in what you have to say. “WHAT YOU DO” should be compared to “WHAT YOU CAN DO”. It is just like comparing the waves on the top of the ocean with the mighty depth of the ocean.
11. 3  ORGANIZED PRESENTATION OF THE SUBJECT
12. It should not be a written speech delivered word by word. An organized presentation is a list of subjects to be included, and the continuity with which they are to be presented. Each idea should lead naturally in to the next idea. The material for your outline should be drawn from experience and knowledge of the subject. You should have all your material, both notes and supplies to be used, prepared and ready well in advance so there may be no nervousness resulting from last minute preparation
13. Visual aids can greatly enhance or detract from a presentation. Visual aids cause your presentation to appeal to the eyes as well as ears. Psychologists say we remember 20% of every thing we hear, 40 % of what we see and 80% of both we see and hear.
14. SOME VISUAL AIDS
15. 1 BLACK BOARD/ WHITE BOARD
16.   This old standard is good for small groups. It has three advantages 
17.  A    It is highly flexible   
18.  B    It is quick and easy to use  
19. C   You can find it almost anywhere you speak. It is not sophisticated compared to gadgetry. Most of you have in our own living rooms. You should remember to keep it clean and well erased. Also you should write in large block letters visible throughout the room.
20. 2 FLIP CHART
21. It is a common aid found in most of the hotels and stationary stores. Its advantages are the same as of black board but it’s easy to use. It is available in various colours. You can add variety of massages in black, red and blue etc. Another advantage is you can write massage in advance which you can reveal at appropriate times its disadvantage is its limited visibility in front of a large audience. It can be more effective if you limit the massage on each page to a few words: the. Sheet should be flipped when over. You are to let the marker lie open too long (to prevent it from drying out)
22. 3 OVERHEAD PROJECTOR, SLIDE SHOW OR VIDEO
23. This is the latest technique and can be produced by many software packages available for use with your computer. The big advantage is that you can reach to large audience. You should talk to audience in accordance with the concerned slides. It means when a video is presented you should know what you are to say before and after the film so it ties in with your overall message. You should tape the cord to the floor that no one can trip over it
24.  4  KNOWLEDGE OF OUR SPEECH & DEFECTS TO AVOID
25. A Complete knowledge of the subject as well as of the audience with all other essential factors may not produce nice results if one element of carelessness in speech is there. In speaking of contractions, you do not make reference to those which are approved, but rather to those individual expressions that are not approved. One common defect is grammatical mistakes which are to be removed by purchasing a good grammar book or borrow from a public library for correcting mistakes. We realize that a great many of our students do not have a problem of this nature. On the other hand, we must include this information for the benefit of those who may have permitted their speech defects to become part of their regular vocal expression.
26.  5 SINCERITY WITH THE JOB
27. It is such an important quality that one can literally say that it represents one of the cornerstones of “CHARACTER”. The people who don’t understand the importance of sincerity, and do not practice it all the times, have not advanced to a mature development, and their sense of responsibility is sure to be lacking. Practicing sincerity in all things is a mark of maturity and places an added value on the individual.
28. Sincere people say only what they feel is accurate to the best of their knowledge. They are not prone to pretty thoughts or deeds much solid, useful, constructive and dependable citizens. The quality of sincerity covers every thing they do, and the lack of sincerity colours in a negative way every thing they do. You should say only what you know to be factual. Dramatizing a fact is not at all a departure from sincerity, but illustrates and makes any subject more attractive to the audience. You should believe in what you say and need not fear any repercussions due to this.
29. YOU SHOULD OBSERVE FOLLOWING PROCEDURES TO IMPROVE YOUR CONVERSATION
30. 1 You should analyse your own speech habits. You are to be conscious of what and how you are saying it at all times
31. 2 You should be conscious of the expressions of the people with whom you have come in contact. You are to analyse their English also. You are to concentrate on the defects and should be alert for the thoughts particularly well expressed
32. 3 You should check your Pronunciation of the frequently mispronounced words which you have listed previously. Also you should think of other words that might be mispronounced and check your pronunciation of them also.
33. 4 You should make a list of every word you have mispronounced .Each morning and evening you should repeat several times until you pronounce exactly. The only way one can break a bad habit is to create a good one. So by creating the habit of saying them correctly you can eliminate their improper use and there after always will be conscious of their proper Pronunciation
34. 5 You should keep your talks, demonstrations and conversation in your own natural style. You should not copy some one else way of talking or writing. You should add some true stories of your own and people’s experience to make your speech interesting. You should search anecdotes to weave in to your talks. When you bring yout ideas, and not “my” opinion, your audience translates your word pictures in to realm of their experience
35. 6 You should make an outline of a talk which you might deliver before a group of ladies, including anecdotes. Your outline should not be a complete speech. With this outline you are to deliver complete speech by your experience. You should select a subject relating to your work. A good example of a speech/ talk that captures your attention, making the audience laugh and may educate also.
36. IMPRTANCE OF WEDDING SPECIALIST
37. YOU the wedding specialist devote Your time to help Your client to save his/her time. You should have only one thing in mind to concentrate on the wishes of BRIDE AND GROOM. You should pay extraordinary attention to detail every thing ahead of time and leave no stone unturned so that wedding family may enjoy the wedding days in full swing. It should not be considered  your job only but  pleasure also to watch the details of the ceremony to run it smoothly. You are to prevent all little mishap as double booking of  venue, limo not reaching in time, missing of wedding bouquet  by florist by staying in touch with all your vendors. You are to  make it possible for any of them neither to forget the date, the time or the place. You are to design and note down each and every detail  from invitation system to departure ( budgeting, venue selection , placement of furniture, floral decoration, selection of menu and its placement theme wise, illumination )according to the wishes of the wedding family. You are  also to coordinate in purchase (wedding gown, train and veil) if the wedding family demands to enjoy Stress free ceremony

        vijay kumar verma

        KV WEDDING CONSULTANTS

        EMID vijay@kv-weddingconsultants.com

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PHILOSOPHY OF SUCCESS

PHILOSOPHY OF SUCCESS

It is hard fact that we are all governed by some philosophy. There is no one without a philosophy of some kind, either recognized or unrecognized. Where it is unrecognized, it is more apt to be a negative, harmful philosophy than a positive and helpful one

Now we start with PHILOSOPHY OF SUCCESS. Success is not one time achievement. It is regular phenomena. Rather it is a journey till our last breathe. There are hundreds of scholars, salesmen, educators, businessmen, politicians, who quote their own philosophy of success.  It varies by trade, age or field. Actually there is no secret to success. It is the result of planning, hard work, and learning from failures in the past. Mostly it comes with the efforts of team work than alone whether it is office, home or  play ground. It is a bad teacher but attracts smart people to think that they can’t loose.

PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS

1 SOUND HEALTH

You are to develop a positive mental attitude for success. But healthy mind resides in healthy body. The day you are not healthy your mind does not concentrate on any subject. So you should spare some time daily for physical exercise as compulsory as breathing other wise sluggishness and dullness will be there in your body and mind. If you don’t have the will power to maintain your health then you must lack to maintain the positive attitude in other important subjects also that control your life

2 MENTAL ATTITUDE

 It is the single most important principle of success controlled by you. A positive mind finds ways of doing things and negative finds ways for not doing things

3   INITIATIVE

 It is the base of success. It is the inner power that starts all action may be creation of opportunity, future development, and advancement. You should formulate a plan and execute on it to make it a success. Your most dangerous enemy is delaying things. The best motto should be DO IT NOW

4 CREATIVE VISION

 It has its base in sub consciousness and it is the medium through which you invent new ideas. Imagination is limited but creative vision has no limitation. Imagination becomes week with inaction but can be revived through regular use

5 ENTHUSIASM

It plays the vital role in the success. It is as important as gasoline for engine to accelerate. It is the state of mind which inspires action and is most infectious of all emotions. It is more powerful than logic, reason, in getting your ideas across and in winning over others to your view point. It stimulates your subconscious mind

6 TARGET FIXING

It is the starting point of all achievements. Without fixing your target you can’t reach anywhere. Your mental attitude plays the lead role in achieving that target. If it is positive you are moving ahead, if negative you must be undermining your own efforts. You should formulate any dominating idea or plan held in your conscious mind and executed through your repeated efforts and emotionalized by your burning desire for its realization with your natural and logical means available

7 MASTERMIND ALLIANCE

Team work wins. Mostly success is achieved with master mind alliance whether it is in business, home or in play ground but it should be between like minded persons. A group of innovative brains coordinated with support of harmony provides more thoughts and energy than a single brain. If the company is run by single owner then the boss should coordinate with subordinates in descent and friendly manner to yield nice results. She/he should fix independent and opportunity targets to his/her subordinates and admire their talent even before telling any mistake in feed back. He/She should neither be sweeter than sugar nor be bitter than quinine. He/She should listen properly then may give his/her views patiently

8 PERSONAL APPEARANCE

First impression is your appearance because it embraces everything you control (your mind, your body and your soul).  It is a natural gift by super power but dressing sense also boosts it.  The big organizations fix up the dress code of their executives to boost the image and ambience of their company. After that your humbleness, conversational skill, mental attitude, also decides your image. To be happy you are to make every person happy around you.

9 FAITH

It is the state of mind which should be active. It comes when fear is gone.  It is the awareness of believing in and harmonizing the universal power.  So you are to close down the doors of fear. Only faith can not bring the positive results but shows the way to ourselves.

10 MORE THAN DEMAND

“The more you give the more you get” is the right approach whether you are in job, profession or business if you render more than you are paid for, Sooner or later you get compound interest on your investment or service rendered. Means if you are in the job you should come early before the arrival time and leave after the departure time to be in the good books of the employer.

11 INSPIRATION

 You are to inspire your team in a friendly way giving them targets. Every person requires money. So he/she works hard to achieve the target and improves his/her financial position. You should help them in solving their problems so that they may consider themselves a part of the organization and give their 100%.

 12 EDUCATIONAL DEFEATS

Every person faces defeat some time. It should be considered stepping stone not stumbling block for success in future. You are fail actually when you accept it and stop trying .The persons are better who try and fail than who fail to try. Edison failed 10,000 times before perfecting Electric lamp. Every failure carries with it the seed of Equivalent benefit which may prove blessing in disguise

13 BUDGET OF TIME AND MONEY

 Inventory of time and money is to be made daily because any mistake can be corrected but not the wastage of time. Secret of getting any thing done is “DO IT NOW” because present moment is the best time for any work to be done because past is gone and future is not predictable. Time is too precious to be wasted in arguments and discontentment. So argument on any issue should   be avoided and use this time in some creativity.

14 SELF DISCIPLINE

It is the process that ties together all your efforts, your mind, your initiative, your positive mental attitude and your enthusiasm. It teaches us to think before act. If you don’t discipline your self then you will be governed by others. Without discipline you are as dangerous as a car without brakes

15 ACCURATE THINKING

Thoughts possess the power which can be used wisely or unwisely. Accurate thinkers don’t allow any body to think for them. It involves two fundamentals 1 Facts 2 Information. Again facts are classified in to two

 A  Important

 B  Unimportant

 Successful persons are masters of their emotions. They don’t accept political, religious, or other factors regardless of its source unless carefully analyzed by themselves

16 One should not limit his/her horizon but to expand it. Belief in him/her self and the resources he/she has tapped is one of the most important bricks in the success of that venture

vijay kumar verma 

KV WEDDING CONSULTANTS

CELL 8010101018 EMID     vijay@kv-weddingconsultants.com

THOUGHTS OF LIFE

Our real company is our thoughts.A man is known by his/her thoughts. These differ from person to person.There are three bases for its creation.1 our inheritance  2 our company of friends  3 our educational institution

1 ABRUPT REACTION DURING CONVERSATION IS TO BE AVOIDED.WE SHOULD WAIT  TILL OPPOSITE PERSON IS SAYING SOMETHING.AFTER THAT REPRESENT YOUR THOUGHT IN DESCENT MANNER.ANY WHERE IN DISCUSSION TEMPER IS TO BE MAINTAINED.GOOD CONVERSATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT WAY TO SUCCEED.HE SELLS WELL WHO TELLS WELL WITH PATIENCE. EVEN IN WORST CIRCUMSTANCES ANGER IS NOT TO BE DEPICTED BECAUSE THIS IS  WORSE THAN ANY OTHER DISEASE.

2 LISTENING IS A NICE HABIT.SHOULD LISTEN 8 TIMES MORE THAN SPEAK AS INDICATED BY NATURE WHO HAS PROVIDED US ONE TONGUE DOUBLE LOCKED BY 32 TEETH, 2 LIPS TO SPEAK AND 2 EARS TO LISTEN.SECONDLY PEOPLE LIKE LISTENING TO THEM. THIRDLY ENERGY USED IN CONVERSATION IS SAVED WHICH WE CAN USE IN CREATIVE THINGS.MEANS OUR WORK SHOULD SPEAK ONLY.

3 IF CONVERSATION IS NECESSARY THEN IT SHOULD BE POLITE AND EFFECTIVE BECAUSE PERSONALITY OF ANY PERSON IS (APPEARANCE + CONVERSATIONAL SKILL) IN HUMBLE CONVERSATION FACE EXPRESSIONS ALSO SUPPORT US NICELY WHICH IS THE MAJOR PART OF OUR PERSONALITY. MEANS THE ULTIMATE THING FOR SUCCESS IN ANY FIELD OF LIFE IS CONVERSATIONAL SKILL.RATHER A PERSON IS JUDGED WHILE TALKING TO HIS JUNIOR.

4 IF AIM IS HIGH THEN HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE BECAUSE INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN HEALTHY BODY .SO IN 24 HOURS 2 HRS TO BE SPENT FOR IT AS COMPULSORY AS BREATHING FOR BODY.SECONDLY MEANING OF WORD EATABLES SHOULD BE UNDERSTOOD. THAT IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)

5 REPUTATION IS PRECIOUS BUT CHARACTER IS PRICELESS. It IS EASY TO MAINTAIN BUT DIFFICULT TO RECOVER.SO DEALING WITH FEMALES SUBORDINATES SHOULD BE IN ELEGANT PROFESSIONAL WAY KEEPING A DISTANCE FOR UNSTOPABLE PROGRESS IN BUSINESS OR PROFESSION

6 HEALTH IS TO BE GIVEN EQUAL IMPORTANCE AS TO PROFESSION OR BUSINESS. WE CONTRIBUTE UNLIMITED HOURS FOR THE SUCCESS OF BUSINESS BUT NOT ONE HOUR FOR THE HEALTH WITH WHICH BUSINESS/PROFESSION IS TO BE EXECUTED. INNOVATIVE BRAIN RESIDE IN HEALTHY BODY.SO WE SHOULD START OUR DAY WITH YOGA AS A COMPUSORY SUBJECT.IT IS AS IMPORTANT AS BREATHING FOR OUR BODY. SECONDLY MEANING OF EATABLES SHOULD BE UNDERSTOOD. THAT IS “THINGS WHICH ARE ABLE TO EAT” (EATABLES=EAT+ABLE)

7 No plant in the universe can flourish if its roots are not healthy because it is the only selfless part which forwards every feed further taken from earth. But it should be taken care nicely time to time. And PARENTS ARE THE ROOTS my dear. We may or may not worship GOD but PARENTS for real happiness in life

8 In conversation we should be as bright as Sun, as cool as Moon as sweet as honey because to reach dizzy height in business / profession conversation plays the major role after fortune

9 To achieve a target in life is just like burning a candle in storm or producing fire in water.We should not compare our self with others because we watch only their cool side not can see the sucky and hidden part of their life. In the end we are left comparing our mundane day-to-day life with others’ adventures. That is a competition we can't win .We may learn from horse running as his eyes are covered with leather to avoid distraction from

 10 A successful BUSINESSMAN is that who does not react at once in conversation. Listens properly, then gives his views patiently, can create a team of innovative subordinates keeping over all control with him. He should neither sweeter than sugar nor bitter than quinine. He should give independence, opportunity targets, to subordinates, admire their talent before telling any mistake in feed back

11 GENERALLY WE SPEND TOO MUCH OF TIME IN TRYING TO PERFECT SOMETHING BEFORE LAUNCHING IT INSTEAD WE SHOULD LAUNCH WHAT WE POSSESS IN THAT MOMENT AND PERFECT IT ALONG THE WAY.

12 It is said that If character is lost everything is lost ,if health ,something is lost , if wealth , nothing is lost then why we are called rich only with wealth  not with character and health in possession

13 Before starting innovation we should assess our self, our company’s vision, our company’s ultimate goal. Keep our eyes and ears open .Think of genius. Take some time to study successful persons Learn what makes them tick and how their “out-of-box” thinking got them to where they are today Note down in computer in initial stage. Even if you think an idea is bad .Consult with team members.. Collaboration is key to success

14 We are security officers of our own health, wealth, reputation and relationships. If we ignore any of the four ,the whole system gets upset because of connectivity with one another .So we should try  to secure all to maintain balance.

    

15 Nobody is to share our responsibilities, even God how much we pray (beg). we are to keep our self cool and solve it patiently because when a tight knot is to open it requires patience The only  solution is to work sincerely keeping in mind that every effort does not produce positive results .means with negative results we are not to be disappointed 

16 We are in a society in which we have made some ethics as school is for study; Mandir is for worship, gym for exercise and bed room for love making. How we can condemn sex when we are born with it but it should not be shown openly on social sites because it’s a personal property.

17 Efforts should be treated as companion (all the time with us ) and success should be treated as guest (comes occasionally ) to keep our self healthy and tension free 

18 The strongest man on earth is that who stands alone with a vision because nobody is around him to distract. He creates friendship with efforts only

19 If we are to reach the highest point then are to start our journey from lowest because it require experience which starts from the lowest end

20 An Artist is unique in character. He is mad with his own loveliness He does not see the things as they are but as he is because art is the WINE OF LIFE.

21 The process of birth shows the complicacy of life. That to achieve any target throughout our life we are to pass through a tight way It means nothing comes easy in life. So we should try for the best and prepare for the worst keeping in mind that life is not of bed of roses always.

22 whatever available in present moment of life we should accept it happily if  want to enjoy life because it is the air port from where we are to take off the flight of achievements

23 Be ready to spend some money. It’s smart to have funds saved up for research Dream big, humble start. Take one step at a time. If your company has the wonderful idea of building a flying car, you might want to teach everyone how to use a wrench first. Baby steps are extremely important. Once you have a great, innovative and development.

24 Try for best prepare for worst. When it comes to generating innovative ideas, failure is commonplace. If something doesn’t work out, do your research, keep making adjustments and start again if necessary. It will be worth it in the end. You’ll only fail if you give up!. People who try and fail are better than those who fail to try.

25 Listen and silent possess same letters. we can either speak or listen at one time. By listening we learn much.  so we should listen even to dull and ignorant people because sometime they have their own story for our vocabulary of knowledge And lastly people are pleased  by listening to them.

26 If conversation is a necessity then we should be humble in expressing our thoughts We should not impose our thoughts to others but for the improvements of ourselves otherwise we will have fewer friend

 27 We are not to boast of our achievements. Because when the rises everybody feels its heat and shine

28 We should make our job entertaining so that we may be able to produce good results without fatigue rather with freshness. It means we should create interest in our work. It should not be only for bread and butter but for enjoyment also

29 To be happy in every moment of life we should enjoy those things which we possess  in that moment and ignore which we do not, because all the comforts cannot come together all the  times
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30 Whatever pleasure giving moments are with us at present we should take full advantage of those because our only property is our present time

 31 Anger shows the character of the person. It is worse than any other disease. It stops creativity of brain .if we are patient in one moment of anger we can escape unlimited days of sorrow.

32 Generally we get angry when we find faults with others sitting around us. For happiness in life we are to absorb the faults of others because one moment of anger spoils so many days of happiness.

33 Creative mind is in healthy body. So at least one hour should be devoted daily to keep the body healthy. If we cannot devote time for it then we have no right to think about it whether it may go to hell. In the later stage we may not recover it even by spending that money which we have earned at the cost of our health.

 34 We should maintain the balanced life .it should be divided as health, family, business and social. we generally do injustice to health, family and devote whole time to business and social life. With the results business and social contacts rises at the cost of health and family which cannot be recovered in the later stage of life

35 We are here in this beautiful world. WE are to make it more beautiful with our efforts not to find out its creator and praising His art again and again.  If any super power created us we are also improving our self day by day. If we compare the original composition (undressed person) with the dressed one we can find out the difference and feel our importance. 

36 One thing is to be kept in mind that all alluring things cannot come together all the time in life. Some time we get this and some time that. So we should remain happy with what we possess in that moment of life otherwise we will be sad always

37 TRY FOR THE BEST PREPARE FOR THE WORST is the only solution to make ourselves happy. In Ramayana Lord Ram kept patience in such an odd time when smt. Sita JI was kidnapped by Mr. Ravan. Lord Rama did not demand help from His father, planned everything in jungle, took one year and got released Smt. SITA, but did not perform any pooja path for this hard task. After reading this holy book so many times if we perform pooja path to achieve small small things in life it means we have not learnt anything from this holy book only read it inattentively

38 IF WE WANT REAL HAPPINESS it is found in innocence which is available at two places one in kids 2^nd in pets because they return more than we give them. In human society the return is less than expected so is the cause of disturbance but we cannot live without it so we should remove expectation word from from our dictionary. So should spend some time with kids and pets for real happiness

39 We are to contribute something according to our skill to make this world more beautiful. Few people contributed according to their talent but majority have not. To hide their inefficiency they discovered a name called GOD (generator operator destroyer) in Hindi they named it BRAHMMA (generator) VISHNU (operator) MAHESH (destroyer). They created statues religion wise sat in front of them for begging something more than in their possession

40 Few persons did nothing only created a different but false path claiming this world mithya (false).They wear saffron (sign of detachment ) or white simple type of dressing but constructed their own huge ashrams with the donations of terrified  people. Some persons went one step ahead they posed themselves as GOD. .They suggested MEDITATION, HAVAN, POOJA, PATH to any kind of problem because most of them are week persons who could not face the problems of life .

41 After achieving a successful life we move to detached persons (sadhu, Babe) for some problems we face at different times. But how they can solve a problem connected with business when they are ignorant about it. How they can solve a domestic issue when they themselves have run away from this life

42 GOD IS CREATING HUMAN BEINGS    THAT is THE ONLY ACHIEVEMENT .BUT WE ARE DOING SO MANY THINGS  TO MAKE OUR SELF MORE AND MORE BEAUTIFUL CONTINUOUSLY .IT IS MORE THAN WONDERFUL AND APPRECIABLE. HATS OFF TO THE PERSONS WHO HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN THIS MODERNIZATION  .MEANS WE SHOULD REALIZE OUR STRENGTH.

43 We all believe in holy books like RAMAYNA, MAHABHARATA, GEETA, BIBLE, and GURUGARANTHSAHIB. If we study carefully LORD RAM could not live peacefully throughout his life LORD KRISHNA could not change neither his birth place (prison) nor HIS death. LORD ESAMASIH could not prevent himself from nailing. GURU NANAK DEVJI could not change the views of their children. Then how can we expect a life full of roses all the time. Thorns are to be accepted also HAPPILY.

44 Meditation is a temporary solution for peace of mind. Meditation is to detach our self from the rest of the world and move to neutral. We should make our job so attractive that we need not to think of   DETATCHMENT with this beautiful world for a moment even

45 Reality is horrible to listen that we live by killing others. Everybody is killer. We all in illness kill germs by taking medicines. We all do not like any type of insect inside our premises so we kill them by spray or some other means. We all kill vegetable plants for our food. We all cut our garden plants to make it beautiful. When we perform any type of worship we pluck flowers (killing of flowers) from its original place and devote or shower upon a statue .So we all are killers.

46 Whatever we do in life is totally a natural phenomenon because we cannot select our parents. If we are born in royal family silver spoon is in our mouth otherwise we are spoon for others. Secondly when we meet our life partner. If it is proper harmony in each other then it is heaven otherwise…….Thirdly when we give birth to a child. If it is good then ok otherwise…. It means nothing in our hands Achhe ho to itrana nahin bure ho to pachhtana nahin

47 We should DO BEFORE DO the following 1 listen before speak 2 think before write 3 earn before spend 4 try before quit 5 wait before criticize 6 save before retire 7 do memorable before die 8 investigate before invest

48 We should buy when everyone else is selling and hold until everyone else is buying. That's not just a catchy slogan. It's the very essence of successful investing.
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49 The only definition of happiness is to get according to our wishes and  the wishes are inborn and we are known by our wishes so nothing is in our hands (TO BE NICE OR …)


50 We are to decide whether we want to be unique or one of the crowd person. In the first option we are to create our own line of action without bothering the results we are to watch our weaknesses value our strength and try hard to achieve

51 How can every brain resemble in innovation. there are two type of persons one type wants to live as a part of the crowd doing routine things in daily life second type want to be unique  making its own line leaving the crowd doing some memorable things in good sense at the same time giving something benefit able to the society also  
 

 52 we stumble on small stones not on mountains because we are not cautious on small things in life .If we do not open our eyes on small small things then we are to open our purse and a light purse is a heavy curse

 53 Sky is the limit for achievement we should be motivated from kite flying (as we keep our eyes up and act very promptly in this process) to reach at the top . Talent ambition and initiative are required for this aim and we are to be more vigilant like a rope dancer to maintain this position

 54 A person of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds (useless plants ).So whatever we promise to ourselves or others should be executed To get things done we are to choose a busy person because he is busy for his working nature the other kind has no time

.55 we  are really old when regrets take the place of hopes because only hope sustains life And we should search hope within the   present circumstances

                                                               

56 Parents should educate their children according to their means saving something for the evening of their life because when they (parents) become unproductive children do not return  the affection and love in the same volume as they have received from their parents as love flows downward like water

 57 Always we should aim for the moon in case we miss it will fall among the stars.aim is the best companion in life MAN / WOMAN-AIM=ANIMAL

58 Success means growth and growth means change only change gives the enjoyment if it is in the right direction. So keep on changing everything but spouse because she is the best consultant (if intelligent)

59 Reading completes the person. Speech is training for the job. It is said that a person sells well who tells well

60 With truth we cannot lead a successful life. Things are to be manipulated even by LORD KRISHNA in MAHABHARATA otherwise PANDAVS would not have won the battle. So life is incomplete without lie (manipulation) 

61 We have always respected weak minded persons. The biggest example is  LORD BUDDHA because he could not see a funeral procession. we have always respected those who did nothing to make this world more beautiful but only criticized it and named it MITHYA (FALSE)

62 A man is known by the behavior he does with a junior or poor person. Everyone is humble with senior or rich person for himself but exclusive is that who deals humbly with a normal guy

63 We should not provide free food (langgar) to people but make them able to grow their own plants. By serving meal we spoil their habit of working which is a loss of society

64 We generally do what the boss inspect not the boss expect .Second type of persons become boss some time

65 If we do not open our eyes we will have to open our purse and a light purse is heavy curse so we should be alert always

66 We do not know what we do not know; we should find faults within ourselves not With others to create a nice society

67 We should live in present time since it is the only property we possess.  Past cannot be re winded and future is unknown. We are to adjust according to circumstances not circumstances adjust with us

68  IF WE COMPARE OURSELF WITH OURSELF IN DIFFERENT TIMES WE COME TO KNOW THAT WE ARE NOTHING ONLY TIME IS EVERYTHING

69 GOLD BECOMES ORNAMENT IF IMPURITIES ARE MIXED IN IT . SUCH IS THE CASE OF HUMANBEINGS. WE ARE TO DECIDE WHETHER WE WANT TO BE GOLD OR ORNAMENT

70  Fortune plays the only roll in human life. Either it is health, wealth, family life ,social life , intelligence or any other amenity come with the fortune. But all these amenities have no link with each other.

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LAND SCAPING

Landscaping

Landscaping is the activity that modifies the visible features of an area of land, .This is the art and craft of growing plants with a goal of creating a beautiful environment .This is also called GARDENING also

It varies according to different regions. If it is done for the first time  understanding of the site is one of the chief essentials for successful landscaping. Different natural features like ground, topography (graphic representation of the surface of land), soil qualities, prevailing winds, depth of the frost line, and the system of plants and animals must be taken into account. Sometimes the land is not fit for landscaping. In order to landscape it, the land must be reshaped. This reshaping of land is called grading. 

Landscaping requires expertise in HORTICULTURE. It is the branch of agriculture which deals with art, science ,technology , business of growing plants,cultivation of medicinal plants,fruits vegetables,nuts,seeds,sprouts,mushrooms,flowers,seaweeds,and non-food crops such as grass ornamental trees and plants and artistic designs

The main feature in landscaping is knowledge of seasonal flowers.

SEASONAL FLOWERS

Floral are angels rooted in soil. How we use them, can make all the difference. We are constantly finding unique architectural ways to use them creating flower laden chandeliers to sitting gazebos. The ways of using them are delightfully limitless.

The various climatic changes that occur in cyclic patterns are termed as 'seasons'. There are four general seasons occurring on Earth - Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter.

FLOWERS ROUND THE YEAR

Flowers & Seasons are intimately bound to each other. Most of the flowers are season - specific. Though some flowers are found throughout the year, there are some not particularly affected by changing seasons, 

Anthurium  Aistromeria  Aster, Bourvardia,Carnation

Chrysanthemum  Gerbera Daisy,Lily, Asiatic Lily

SPRING FLOWERS

Spring Time the time of growth and renewal of new plant and animal life. Spring comes at different times in the North and South Hemispheres.

Spring time in the Northern hemisphere is between March - May, and between September - November in the Southern hemisphere. Most flowering plants bloom during spring time. Therefore, flowers that bloom only during spring, Spring Flowers, bloom at different times in the two hemispheres.

Flowers Blooming in Spring are:

                                                 

 Corn flower  Calla lily   cherry blossom Casa Blanca Lily  Brodea Freesia    Dahlia   Forsythia  Delphinium  Cosmos   Narcissus    Lilac  Liatrus  Hyacinth  Hollyhock   Solidago   Poppy   Peoni  Peach Blossom  Orchid  Stock   Statice  Wax flower  Tulip  Viburnum  Anemone  Protea Aqapanthus  Amaryllis   Zinnia  Gloriosa Lily Helleborus  Apple blossom  Gardenia   Bird of Paradise  Pussy willow  Larkspur     Ranunculus Phlox  Lisianthus    Sweet Pea   Rose Stephanotis  Stargazer   Seeded Eucalyptus

SUMMER FLOWERS

Summer is the time of hot and warm weather. Floral growth is best in the summer season. The Northern hemisphere experiences summer during June, July, and August, while in the Southern hemisphere, during December - February.

Summer is the season of the Midnight sun in the North pole and Ice land.

The Flowers Blooming insummer are:

 Allium   Alstromeria  Amaranthus  Baby's Breath  Star Gazer
Freesia  Gardenia  Genista  Ginger  Hallaconia
 Iris  Liatrus    Lisianthus  Hydrangea    Lilac 
Campanula      Chrysanthemum  Cockscomb Dianthus  Gladiolus 
  Heather     Hypericum    Kangaroo paw     Gloriosa Lily 
 Bird of Paradise  Calla lily  Carnation   Casa Blanca Lily  Cosmos 
 Dahlia   Didiscus  Euphorbia  Foxglove  Delphinium 
       

AUTUMN FLOWERS

Autumn is the season of the primary harvest. Autumn falls during September - November in the Northern hemisphere, and during September - November in the Southern hemisphere. Crops are harvested during Autumn. Beautiful leaves that change color are at their best.

Flowers Blooming in Autumn are:

 Allium   Alstromeria   Amranthus  Bittersweet Gerbera
  Kalancheo    Protea  Rowen berry   Rover Salvia 
Acashia   Zinnia  Solidago   Statice   Anemone 
China berry  Echinops   Daisy  Juniper  Misty Blue 
  Pepper berry   Queen Ann's Lace  Quince   
        Star of Bethlehem  Sunflower   

WINTER FLOWERS

Winter is the season of cold weather. The season occurs during December - February in the Northern hemisphere. In the Southern hemisphere winter occurs during June - August.

The Flowers Blooming in Winter are:

Amaryllis   Chrysanthemums  Cyclamen  pansy Phlox
 Helleborus  Holly berry Narcissus    Pepper berry    Protea

So LAND SCAPING plays the pivotal part in boosting the venue.So we we do it by creating
1 Mounts with sitting gazebos in lawn .
2 Flowery statues 
3 Water activities(ripples creation,waterfalls , fountains etc) 
4 Highlight these with indirect illumination for night view 
5 Civil work is also involved to create artificial trees ,Gazebos with wooden look on the tree

Statue of plants

WOODEN LOUNGE

WATER ACTIVITY

WOOD LIKE CONSTRUCTION 

HEART SHAPE FLOWER POTS

EARTHEN ORNAMENTAL  FLOWER POTS

ARTISTIC PASSAGE

UNIQUE PLANTATION IN LOGS & SHAPING

GRASS DESIGNING

Removal of earth from the land is called cutting while when earth is added to the slope, it is called filling. Sometimes the grading process may involve removal of excessive waste , soil and rocks, so designers should take into account while in the planning stage.

We at KVWC provide consultancy to the new entrants to this field of hospitality for developing Farm Houses for parties .For details contact 6283917794 or what's up 8010101018 or at kvweddingconsultants@gmail.com   vijay verma (certified wedding specialist from USA)
THOUGHT

If we are to reach the highest point then are to start our journey from lowest because it require experience which starts from the lowest end